Obviously the culture and poverty situations are different between Uganda and Bolivia. But the stories are similar. This video really speaks to what we're trying to do down here...
Friday, May 29, 2015
Wednesday, May 13, 2015
Posted by Ken on Wednesday, May 13, 2015 with No comments
It's been encouraging to see what God has been doing in the hearts and lives of the guys living in the house. Watch as some of them share a bit of their stories....
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http://iteams.ca/programs/impact-bolivia/
Thank you!
Sunday, May 10, 2015
Posted by Ken on Sunday, May 10, 2015 with 3 comments
My mom stole a car once.
She took her three boys along and invited the neighbour lady and her
three kids to join her. A couple of days
later the RCMP showed up and she invited them in for coffee. But they still made her give it back.
Honestly my mom isn't like anyone else I know. She's an eastern girl who got dumped into the
middle of the prairies where there wasn't a tree that met her approval for 200
miles. My siblings and I knew that we
didn't dare try to talk to her for the first few hours of the return trip to
Saskatchewan after visiting Ontario...not if we valued our lives in any
way. I'm pretty sure dad knew that rule
too.
Somewhere along the way though (perhaps somewhat
reluctantly), mom decided that the prairies were home. She planted trees around the yard...which
against all odds lived...and buckled down to raise her family.
If you know us at all,
you've probably learned quickly that we’re not your usual family.
I have nine
siblings.
It's kind of like our own
personal version of the United Nations.
I have a nephew who has corn rolls in his hair. And nieces who are Native, Irish and East
Indian...all mixed together in very cute packages. One of my favourite moments was when my
African brother-in-law (who's a musician and the only talented one in the
bunch) gave a shout out to his family during one of his concerts and the
whitest people in the crowd waved back.
When I worked at the boys' home here in Bolivia, I used to
laugh because eating supper with 80 ex-street kids was quieter and less chaotic
than meal times with my family in Canada.
My mom can throw together a meal for thirty (and that's just my
siblings, their spouses and their kids) like no one else I know.
I don't think I ever laugh as hard or get as annoyed or
enjoy my days as much as when I'm hanging out with my family. And in the middle of the chaos that are our
family get together’s...there's my mom.
We all love our dad and he fixes our cars...but it's mom who holds the
entire gong show together.
At some point I should probably mention that mom doesn't
just take care of us. She's been taking
in foster kids for the better part of thirty years and at any given moment there are
usually a couple (or seven) little kids running around the house in various
stages of undress and/or diapers.
She's...ahem...70-ish...and middle of the night bottle
feedings don't phase her in the least. Sorry
all my new-born mom friends…but it’s true.
Well...let's
see...lessons from my mom...
Number one is that anyone who sits at the table is treated
as a member of the family. The downside
is that they have to move quickly if they want to eat. The upside is that they're treated with love
and respect and will receive the same lectures as the rest of us.
No matter what a person has done or not done, there's always
grace and forgiveness. There will likely
be the aforementioned lecture...but tempered with said grace and forgiveness.
Life is nothing without the occasional adventure.
There's nothing that can't be built or knocked down if
you're creative enough and don't really care what it looks like after the
fact. If you don't like a wall in the
house, wait until your husband goes hunting and then take a sledge hammer to
it.
There's as much value in a hand drawn picture in a cheap
Walmart frame, drawn by a foster child, as there is in a valuable antique
painting and they should hang side by side on the wall.
If you have to turn right in twenty seven blocks, it's okay to get
into the right hand lane as soon as possible and come what may (be that buses
that stop every block or a hundred other cars making slow right hand turns) you
ride that sucker to the end.
I'm not sure if that last one was so much a lesson as it was
an observation from a son who sat in the passenger seat for too many years.
In the end, the most important lesson I've learned from my
mom is that God is love. I know this
because I've seen it in my mom. Every person, no matter their age, colour or
background or mistakes they've made, has been created by God and deserves our
love, encouragement, dignity and help.
Both my parents taught me early on that there's no request
for assistance from a friend, neighbour or stranger that shouldn't be met with
a smile and a "Sure, what can I do?" If I've ever seen the verse, "They'll
know us by our love" personified in a person, it's in my mom.
All of those lessons have served me very well over the
years. Well, except for the driving in
the right hand lane one. That one drives me crazy. But the rest is why I do what I do.
The example that my mom (and my dad) set for us growing up
is why every kid that comes into our house here is a part of our family and
treated as such.
It's why, when I see a need, my first thought is what can I
do to help meet that need.
It's why I want to provide a family for these guys who have
never known a loving, Godly family…because my mom (and again my dad) provided
this for me.
So Mom…here’s to you.
Happy Mother’s Day! You
deserve it.
You really are the best mom
a guy could ever ask for or have. Thanks
for loving all of us and being such a great example. We all love you more than we could ever tell
you.
Well...not that I would probably even try to tell you (at least in person) because, after all, I am a male member of the Switzer family and Dad’s gene won out in the desire
to avoid the touchy/feely stuff.
This is
also why the guys and I punch each other (as do my brothers and I) as demonstrations
of our love and affection for each other…
Well, Mom….this is all just to say…
I miss you and I love you lots! Hope
you have a wonderful day!
Lots of love!
Ken
PS I really do wish I
was there to give you a hug and some flowers or something. Although, I did send a present home with the
family that was just here because I’m the eldest and the most thoughtful and,
of course, your favourite.
I know that you
can’t admit that because you are such a great mom….but we both know it’s true.
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